Rules to Better Giving and Taking Feedback
- Communication - Do you know the 3 A's for receiving feedback/criticism (even if it’s not your fault)?
- Do you know that it's bad to win the argument but lose the client?
- Do you do a retrospective after an activity ends (aka take feedback)?
- Do you know not to assume the worst of peoples intentions?
- Communication - Do you know the nice way to correct someone?
- Do you know to not give anchors for getting feedback?
- Do you ask open-ended questions?
- Communication - Do you avoid shutting down every feedback example?
- Do you know to create a safe space instead of jumping into feedback?
- Communication - Do you offer specific feedback?
- Communication - Do you start and end with positive feedback? (aka The 'Sandwich' rule)
- Do you utilize a positive tone when interacting with clients?
- Do you avoid the word "but" in your communication?
- Communication - Do you avoid swearing at work?
- Do you know that people misunderstand sarcasm in text?
- Do you use ‘off the record’ conversations when appropriate?
- Do you speak up about unfairness?
- Do you find the positive in the decisions?
- Forms - Do you ask the value they received?
- Communication - Do you know how (and when) to offer unsolicited feedback?
- Communication - Do you know how to accept unsolicited feedback?
- Stakeholder Management - Do you know how to disagree with powerful stakeholders?
- Do you know how to separate the urge from the behavior?
- Communication - Do you handle passive aggressive comments effectively?
- Communication - Do you know how to speak to people you don't like?